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Thank you so much! I’m sorry I haven’t updated in awhile! Super busy but when May begins I will continue to update!

This Spring Break you are going to be more than willing to try out some new things and maybe even some new people. Remember to be safe and remember that not everyone is what they may seem, take Natalie Holloway for an example. 

If you meet a guy and you really want to get it on with him make sure you inform every girl in your pack of this. Yes you may be a little intoxicated and you may forget but remember to inform your friends. If anything happens at least your friends will know when you left, where you went to, and who you left with. This is a common mistake that many young women make. They assume that their friends know exactly what they are doing when in reality they have absolutely no clue! The old saying “Don’t go anywhere alone” still applies but we all know that rule is often broken, especially on Spring Break…

If you don’t feel comfortable going to his room you should get it on in your room. Make sure your girls are close by in case anything crazy should happen. With your hookup in your room you will at least know where you are and where to go in case of an emergency.

If it is possible leave with a few other friends when you leave. Trust me, no man in his right mind will deny you if brought two other girls along with you. He just thinks he’s getting extra action but in reality they are just making sure you are extra safe.

Wear protection, have protection, and bring back up protection. You have no idea who these guys are and where they have been. You have a right to protect yourself. One false move can lead you to a lifetime of regret. So be safe, don’t be stupid! If your going to be having sex with guys bring extra condoms!

Have fun! Spring Break brings memories of a lifetime for you and your friends. Enjoy it while it lasts because in a few short days you will be back at school taking your final exams. Just remember that everyday good things happen to good people. While a lot of us would like to lie to ourselves and say that it couldn’t possibly be us, I don’t break these rules, etc. etc. Just know that things happen. It is possible sometimes to prevent bad things before they happen.

XOXO, Jessica

When it comes to almost anything in life a majority of women are afraid to add sexiness to their personality. But why? Is it because they are afraid they will be judged negatively by their peers? Or are they afraid of just being sexy? 

There is nothing wrong with adding a little sexiness to anything. You’re a woman, you’ve got it, flaunt it. Don’t be ashamed of who are you. EMBRACE IT and love yourself. Sure, you aren’t perfect but remember no one else is. Even though some women may seem to be “perfect” please believe that they are not and that they also hold insecurities as well. It is okay to laugh, it is okay to be a smart woman, it is okay to be yourself. When you let personality come out you are also revealing to others that you are comfortable in your own skin. This is a form of sexiness that many women do not possess. It is about having confidence and being comfortable in your own skin.

It is okay to be flirty, bubbly, giggly, and mysterious. Its okay to wear an extra spritz of your perfume. It is okay to try on that red lipstick and deep chocolate brown eyeliner. Try out what you want to do and don’t worry about what anyone else will say or think. Remember that no one else’s opinion really matters except your own. Who cares what some one says about you. They are jealous of something that you have. Remember that jealousy is a sign of weakness. 

Be yourself and don’t be ashamed. It is okay to have a real personality. Be comfortable with yourself because this is where your real sexiness lies.

Need a way a to keep it passionate and unique in the bedroom? Try gentle touching. The sense of touch is an extremely powerful one that can be manipulated in your bedroom. 

Light, gentle, easy touches are the ones that are remembered most by your lover. Not only do light touches leave an imprint in their mind but they also send chills down their spines.

Next time when your in bed try stroking these key areas: inner thigh, nipples, chest, neck, ears, and that spaces underneath his sack. Remember not to be forceful and to have a soft light and gentle touch!

XOXO, Jessica

Need a really quick way to drive your guy crazy? Try the good-girl goes naughty routine. This is personally one of my favorite things to do because it is simple, easy, and drives guys wild.

Warm up your guy with the innocent side of you. I have absolutely zero innocence left and if I can play this off you sure can too. This step is more of an “acting” stage. Act unfamiliar with his penis, be shy, be cute, and look a little frightened by the massive meat. That innocent virginal side of you will just shine through! Also remember to look as innocent as possible. Go with a natural look and climb into bed with his T-Shirt for example. If you want to go the extra mile try two braids in your hair he will really enjoy them.

After spending a good amount of time in this stage whip out the naughtiest side of you and surprise him! “A girl who looks virginal but is really a sex kitten is every man’s dream,” according to Cosmopolitan.com. Get wild, talk dirty, take control, and get on top! When you’re finished he will surely be begging for more! 

XOXO, Jessica